Family Forums
Parenting Forums
Pregnancy Forums
Adoption Forums
Fertility Forums






Members List Photos Events Local Adoption Support Search Arcade Reviews Membership Upgrade
Welcome to the Forums. Register
If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ. You may have to register before you can post or search: click here to proceed. To start viewing messages, select a forum below that you would like to view or click View All of Todays Posts.
Forum Categories
User Name
Password

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 01-12-2005, 03:23 PM
strimm66 strimm66 is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 7
Total Points: 235.00
Donate
18th B-Day today 1-12-87

I'm a birthmother and my son just turned 18 today. Jan 12,1987. i heard that there wouldn't be a forum for 1987 until next year and thought after waiting 18 years that it was long enough so i posted anyway.
This has been a very sad but yet very happy day. My tears has not yet to quit.
I pray to God that somewhere out there that he believes he has a BirthMother that is constantly thinking about him. He was born in Eunice Louisiana. Oneday i Pray that we shall meet face to face.
I have so many question for you and I also have so many answers for you as well. I have taken this entire day off work just to search for information that will bring us closer together. If anyone out there would like to share any information that may be helpful in searching for him, i would really appreciate it. This is only my first day of my search but not the first day of pain, and sadness. I could use any information that you have used in the past that has proved to be successful . Thanks Sandra
I'm new at this forum so please bare with me..
Reply With Quote
Click Here to Get Started
Adoption Reunion Information

Looking for your birthfamily? Need assistance from the experts? Contact us today.

Your First Name
Your Last Name
Your Email Address

Become an adoption forums premium member to enjoy these Membership Benefits:
  • Remove Advertising
  • Unlimited Arcade
  • Unlimited Attachments
  • Increased PM Storage
  • Calendar Posting
  • Larger Avatars
  • Personal Page
  • Just $19.95 / yr!

  #2  
Old 01-12-2005, 03:34 PM
scarlet52698's Avatar
scarlet52698 scarlet52698 is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Feb 2003
Posts: 622
Total Points: 7,380.00
Donate
Just wanted to give you ((((hugs))) my son turns 18 on the 28th of this month so I know how you feel.

Have you contacted the agency/attorney that you placed with to update your file? That's usually a good place to start.
__________________
Heather
Mommy to twin boys (5) and a daughter (2)
Birthmom to Bret (19)
Reunited Adoptee (1998)
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 01-15-2005, 02:49 PM
suzherm's Avatar
suzherm suzherm is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Mar 2003
Posts: 161
Total Points: 3,647.05
Donate
Hi there. I understand your feelings. My daughter turned 18 last year. I am still waiting for the creation of the 1986 board here on this forum. You are correct that the entire year has to pass before they will create a 1987 board. They ALL have to turn 18..(as you can see, we still dont have 1986 yet).

My daughter was born in 1986 in Illinois. Feel free to write me or PM any time if you need someone to talk with.

Suz
__________________
Suz
daughter DOB 5.16.86 surrendered to Easter House

"In loving memory of our child
So innocent, eyes open wide
I felt so empty as I cried
Like part of me had died
"
- Dream Theater, "Through Her Eyes"
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 01-15-2005, 06:41 PM
strimm66 strimm66 is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 7
Total Points: 235.00
Donate
Hi Suz, thanks for the repy. I couldn't wait for the 1987 board so went ahead posted anyway. Good Luck with the search for your daughter, I pray you will find her soon. Thanks for the offer to have someone to talk to, that would be great. If you will, email me with you email address, i would love to keep in touch and see how your search is coming along too. Have a good night. Sandi
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 01-30-2005, 02:17 PM
jcmartin9709 jcmartin9709 is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: Aug 2003
Posts: 8
Total Points: 334.00
Donate
The board has been created!! Keep looking.
Reply With Quote
Click Here to Get Started
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Reply: 5.00


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 12:37 PM.


Click Here to Get Started