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Originally Posted By Kyles mommy

My baby Kyle was placed a month ago..he is 33 days old...the a parents were at the hospital with us for 3 days...i had a c-section..ever scince then they have been very distant..I am moving to San Diego..about 20 mins from the a parents..they arnt going to let me see him more often then 3-4 times a year..I am going to be going to school down there so it really isnt an option for me not to go but It will be really hard knowing he is right there and I cant see him

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Originally Posted By young

This would be hard for you! I would not be able to survive only seeing my kid 3 to 4 times a year. I would ask the birthparents to meet you in a public ground. Then I would talk to them about how hard it is for you to have made the decision you did. That you dont regret giving him up to a family with two parents who would love him very much. Then tell them how bad you feel about not getting to see him more. You miss him and love him very much. Then say it isnt that I dont trust you with him its just your need to see him more. ask for a once a month visit with them even if its 15 mins to a half hour. I wish you much luck in this and hope they will understand. For if they are the family you picked for your child then they should understand becasue they must love your son very much explain that you love him also.

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Originally Posted By Kylesmommy

Thank you for the advice. I would like more imput please...this is very difficult.