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Old 08-27-2007, 02:50 PM
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Just got my book in the mail today and read the intro, but I'll catch up quick
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Old 08-27-2007, 03:18 PM
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Old 08-27-2007, 04:45 PM
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Just finished the overview and chapter one (at work - shhh - don't tell my boss!) with pencil and highlighter in hand and am riveted....now if I can get some alone time away from the fam tonight I'll be jamming!
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I am in Chapter 6 and I found myself. I forget what part it is since I am at work and my book is at home.
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Old 08-28-2007, 04:18 PM
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Guys; nothing was posted today because I'm experiencing some pregnancy complications. We'll be back on schedule in the next few days. Right now, I'm beat.
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Old 08-28-2007, 06:24 PM
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Jenna, hope you are okay.


When I read Chapter 6 I now wonder -- I had 4 types of Ambivalence going on at once!! Fluctuation, Emotional paralysis, Stalling and Hoping for Magic.

I think I was also a Spendid Doormat.
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Jenna,

Take your time! I'm still catching up so it works for me! I just hope you're taking care of yourself.

I'm finishing up Chapter 3 and my highligher has been on overdrive....
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Old 08-30-2007, 11:22 AM
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Leigh; That whole hoping for magic thing? Oh yeah. I kept waiting to win the lottery. Not that I was able to leave my home and buy a ticket. But I was waiting.

Tmom; I just had my Husband buy me a new highlighter today because mine ran out.

Heads up that Chapter Seven WILL be posted tomorrow morning. I'm feeling "better." Still having some minor issues but definitely better than I was earlier in the week.
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Old 08-30-2007, 02:55 PM
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I just finished reading and selecting the passages to use for the discussion on chapter seven and, let me tell you, I needed to re-read that chapter. It's about birth parent grief.

When I read the book, initially, I was deep in the throes of denial and the chapter itself didn't "do" much for me. This time around? Whoa baby.
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I seriously need to get me a copy of the book.
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