[susie_book]

It feels like I just post a thread here every few months when things are rough--sorry, y'all! In my defense, I do quietly read most of the others. Anyway. I had my first visit with my bson, and that went fine--but shortly thereafter my partner and I had a condom break, and now my period is late, and I'm suuuper stressed out about it. Last time I didn't test positive until I was six weeks pregnant; if I am pregnant, I'd be about four weeks right now, and sure enough I test negative but that doesn't tell me anything!! If I am pregnant, we'd parent this time--don't think the adoption was the wrong thing to do, but too hard to do a second time, and we're in a different place now (married, living together, working). So I really just am driving myself crazy with the waiting. Any thoughts or feedback from you ladies would be much appreciated.

[loveajax]

Susie, did you try the test that measures the low amounts of hcg (it's been a while...think that's what it is called.). Also, I bet a planned parenthood in your area could do a blood test which is more definitive. I am sorry you are stressed...either way, I wish you the best! Good luck!

[quantum]

(((susie))))
The thing is, if you're not pregnant then you've probably got PMS which can exasperate stress as well!
I would try to get a definitive test and put yourself out of your misery!

Hang in there!

[susie_book]

Well, I don't have a car and my partner is out of town, so at this point I'm just waiting--assuming that I'm not pregnant, but also not doing anything that would be super bad if I did turn out to be pregnant. So...I'll keep you ladies updated.