[bromanchik]

Not a problem Scarlett. As Emily Litella would say "Never Mind"

[Jackiejdajda]

Scarlet Moon wrote

I have no idea what has caused my emotions to be so up front and center.

I have been trying to figure out what is going on with me and I can't see what my trigger is.

Journaling.. write it out here.. or write it out in a private journal.. we were expected to just suppress these emotions and it can not be done.. not in my world..

Something triggers us and bam we are into it..
In therapy once the therapist told me that I need to look for those places that are hot spots and speak about them and look at them from my 'now' eyes.. and heart.. It helped..
I could see that sometimes I solved my problems as a child with a child's thinking.. and I needed to see it from afar..

wonderingkatie84

I am 65.. At sixty I do not think I could have taken on raising a baby again.. as well as a dysfunctional daughter..

I gave my son up because I knew I could not raise him proper.. I knew it with every bone in my body..
Human beings need a good place to learn grow in..
Their minds and hearts need it.. IMO

Jackie

[lahdh4]

Tell her to get some counseling not at all connected to the agency. She needs some unbiased opinions and a place for her to talk all options out.
She may also be closing herself off so that she doesn't feel anything, if that makes any sense. I went through a period where I thought I didn't care and then one day, I did. It really scared me. I didn't know where to turn.
(((HUGS))) to her and to you.