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Old 07-15-2006, 04:26 PM
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I posted about contacting by bio-sons family after learning that he had been institutionalized due to suicide threats. I did contact them and they sent me updates and lots of photos. Today they called me and said last night he committed suicide and left a note for me. They are sending it Monday (overnighting it) and have invited me to go to the funeral.

Timothy 10/14/91-7/14/06 forever in my heart.

I feel like I was just kicked in the gut
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Old 07-15-2006, 05:16 PM
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JGEMOM,

I am sending you the biggest hugs ever and I know that nothing any of us can say will ease your pain....

Just know that we are here for you and your family.

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Old 07-15-2006, 06:12 PM
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JGEMom,

I am so sorry for the loss of Timothy. I send love and hugs to you and all who love him.

And I wish you healing...
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Old 07-15-2006, 06:17 PM
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My thoughts are with you. I am so sorry. My prayers are with you.

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I posted about contacting by bio-sons family after learning that he had been institutionalized due to suicide threats. I did contact them and they sent me updates and lots of photos. Today they called me and said last night he committed suicide and left a note for me. They are sending it Monday (overnighting it) and have invited me to go to the funeral.

Timothy 10/14/91-7/14/06 forever in my heart.

I feel like I was just kicked in the gut
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Old 07-15-2006, 06:18 PM
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Totally dropping in on you from the guat board, but I had to say that I am SO SO sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you also.
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JGEmom....I am so sorry for your loss. It is a parent's fear, for some of us...I can't begin to imagine what your heart is feeling. Praying for your peace and healing..Mari
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JGEmom...sending hugs and prayers your way. I am so sorry for your loss, please know we are here if you need a shoulder to lean on.

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No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. I'm so sorry this happened to you. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
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JGE---I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

In Remembrance of Timothy

((((JGE)))))
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Old 07-15-2006, 11:37 PM
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JGEMom, I'm so sorry for the loss of Timothy.
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Old 07-16-2006, 04:12 AM
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JGEmom, my heart goes out to you, this morning. I can only partially imagine how you are feeling. It is hopefully helpful that Timothy's aparents are including you in honoring his life, so tragically short. The pain you feel now is real and immense. Only with the passage of time will it ease. You need a lot of love and support to endure this intense grief, so don't hesitate to reach out for it. Take comfort knowing that Timothy's tortuted mind now knows the peace he craved.
Sincerely, Audrey
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Old 07-16-2006, 05:52 AM
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Timothy 10/14/91-7/14/06

JGE MOM: MY heart hurts for you!
My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve the loss of a son so young!!!
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JGEmom, praying loving comfort for your heart . . . I can't even imagine.

I will especially be thinking about you as you read Timothy's letter to you.

We are here for you.

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Old 07-16-2006, 07:15 AM
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JGEMom~~ My heartfelt sympathy to you in your great loss. I cannot imagine the hurt and pain you are enduring at this time. Sending my love for you and Timothy, and the rest of your family.

Please know we are here, and you will be in my prayers.
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