[kristy79]

Hi everyone, I thought I would keep you updated.
Thursday morning I went into preterm labor at only 27 1/2 weeks. Both babies were born and are stable. I went through with the adoption. Between recovering from the c-section and the loss of my babies, I am doing relativly well. I am more confident now than I was before with my choice. I know I did the right thing. I even met their adoptive parents, which was very special. I did not see the girls and am glad I didn't, but my family saw them and got to spend a little time with each of them. They are too small to hold (2 1/2 pounds each), but they were able to touch them and say hello. Over all, my experience was not as horrible (other than the traumna of preterm labour and an emergency c-section and being in the hospital for 3 1/2 days). I was/am at peace with my choice, although I know that I will grieve for many years I know I did the best for my daughters. The scariest part is over. They are healthy and loved, thats all that matters to me.

Kristy

[Shoshana]

Thanks for posting your story. I was touched by your strength. Best wishes to you as you heal and continue through the journey we call life :-)

Elizabeth
Adoptee &
Waiting for Shoshana

[sspete]

Kristy--I am touched by your unselfish decision! You will need many prayers indeed to get you through this experience, but you can do it. You have a great attitude and outlook. I have been in your shoes, but that was 19 years ago. It was not easy, but it was the best thing for my baby girl. We are seeing what a great choice I made now with the success she is having in our own life. You stand strong and know that I am praying for you. Many Blessing to you and your family!! You are a brave girl!!