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Old 01-08-2009, 09:34 AM
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hello again. I posted a long time ago. Haley is now 8 1/2. We had an open adoption with pictures, letters, visits with the pictures and letters being a couple times a year and a visit once a year but now it is down to a once a year picture and letter. I understand once the papers are signed the adoptive parents can do what they want. Just didnt think it would happen to me. I am having a hard time finding support. I hardly made it through Christmas. I have had many sobbing moments.
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Old 01-08-2009, 02:48 PM
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Katey, I went through a similar situation a few years ago. If it is an option for you, I seriously suggest finding a good counselor. It helped me work through so many issues I had regarding my son's adoption. It was one of the best things I have ever done for myself.

If you ever need someone to talk to, you can PM me!

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