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Originally Posted By WILTON LOMAHOEMA

HELLO THERE,
I'M IN SEARCH OF MY DAUGHTER WHO I LEFT WITH HER MOTHER, BECAUSE I WAS REALLY YOUNG AT THE TIME. I DO REGRET LEAVING AND NOW ONLY WANDER HOW HER BIRTHDAYS AND OTHER SPECIAL MOMENTS HAVE BEEN. I WAS NOT FINANCIALLY SECURED AT THE TIME WHEN I LEFT, BUT I'M OUT ON MY OWN AND HAVE MY OWN FAMILY. I HAVE A SON WHO IS 3 YRS. OLD AND A NEW BORN AT 2 MTHS. I AM MARRIED NOW. I JUST WANT TO KNOW HOW SHE IS DOING AND IF POSSIBLE I COULD GET A CHANCE TO SPEAK TO HER. MY WIFE AND I REALLY DO WANT TO MEET HER SOMETIME, OR IF POSSIBLE GET HER BACK TO LIVE WITH US. I JUST WANT TO LET HER KNOW AS WELL IS THAT SHE HAS A BROTHER AND A SISTER. ANY INFORMATION I COULD RECIEVED BACK FROM ANY ONE TO GET MY DAUGHTER BACK WOULD BE HELPFULL, AND WELCOMED. TILL I HEAR FROM SOMEONE ABOUT MY SEARCH. I WILL BE WAITING FOR A RESPONCE.
THANK YOU,
WILTON LOMAHOEMA

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Originally Posted By Carol, Birthparent support forum

Wilton, It would help if you could tell me the age of your daughter; how many years has it been since you last saw her?
I can well understand your desire to see and know your daughter, but don't expect to take her from her mother; that's wouldn't be fair. She has a life separate from you now; it was your choice.

Be content with seeing her and knowing her and sharing love with her.

If you know her mother's name, why don't you check the on-line National Telephone Directories?

You could also list your information on the Reunion Registries.
We have one on this website (go to HOME and SEARCH REGISTRY. You'll find a list of other registries on this site, or at www.reunionregistry.org/regist.htm. The International Soundex Reunion Registry is one of the best. Send a self-addressed stamped envelope (#10 size) to ISRR, P.O. Box 2312, Carson City, Nevada 90702-2312 and they will send you a form to fill out and return.

Good luck,
Carol