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Old 07-26-2007, 03:02 PM
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Well, if you want trouble, I've got some...psycho guy that was involved with my second girl somehow found me on a website and e-mailed me.

He sounds different now than he did about 3 years ago, but I don't know that I can trust or believe him. When he was stalking and harrassing me before when I was pregnant and then placed, he could sound nice when he talked to me then too, but then when he didn't get a response he'd be mean and threaten me and my second girl's parents don't really want him to know anything either.

Anyway, I'm kind of freaking out about this sudden attempt to contact me after so long and very unnerved and now I'm feeling the need to go hide and make sure there's nothing online that he can have access to where he would know it was me or anything about my second girl.

As if I didn't have enough things going on in my life right now .

I'm going to go mow the lawn and see if that helps me calm down some for now.
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Its SOOOO boring today!!!

although I suppose I'd rather be bored than have to deal with what you are dealing with Anne!! Huge hugs!

A wise woman once said "LONGEST WEEK EVER" (yes, that's you Brown!)
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I'm still alive (I think!). All we have is dial up here so I'm fighting three nephews, my brother & sister-in-law in addition to my grandson. S took my computer to the other unit today so he could be on line.

I finally kicked him off! My daughter's birthday is today so I talked to her for a bit. J (DS) is arriving this evening as is DH. (And we're leaving tomorrow evening!)

It's been good to see every one, even if I haven't exactly relaxed. (Cooking for 12-15 can be quite tiring... especially when they quarrel over who ate too much of the 2nd pumpkin pie between meals. (Solution - I made a 3rd one!)

Ok ladies, the work week is almost over... and I'm officially back to work on Sunday.
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I need this week over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hate waiting for E to come back from vacation! I want an answer now!!
I had some Passion fruit vodka last night when I got home. Tonight is the pineapple.

Anne - I think I would rather a **** week rather then what you have going on.
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(((HUGS ANNE))) Been there done that. It's so violating to get a message like that isn't it? Once a psycho, always a psycho.

I hope you stay safe!

Still nothing for me. I'm with Leigh with the waiting. Done with it. I'm hoping maybe they are on vaca too? But I don't want to get my hopes up. So I've kinda been keeping a low profile.

Time to go to work.
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(((Anne))) if it makes you feel any better my sister falls in that same catagory as your ex. She searched me out on myspace and was wanting to be added as a friend. What part of "stay away from me and my circle of friends" does she not understand??? Mom had to intervene. Now I'm working on my facebook profile and I'll see if they will add my maiden name (maybe hyphenate it) so DD find it...I'll still keep that one private from public view for a while...until I can get it looking the way I want it to look.

TGIF!! TGIF!! TGIF!!

Still no word back on the job. I'm thinking I didn't get it...I was the first of three interviews.

yum...passion fruit vodka
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woohoo friday!!!

i got a phone call from my Boston last night (which is what I call the boy I am arranging my trip with) so that was very nice. We have just been emailing mostly, but he called to say he's really excited I'm coming out and just talk about stuff

I'm taking my 2 1/2 year old nephew to Disneyland tonight so he can watch the fireworks, he LOVES the fireworks! Anyone else have fun plans for tonight? the weekend?

I'm not giving up hope on you yet Roni! Not till we hear word for sure! I just wouldn't get it...you're so great!!!
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LOL!! I don't know about being great...but I am the Queen of Visio apparently!! ROFL!!

DH called me and told me to call the recruiter. Well, I'm a bit nervous about that...I would prefer to wait until Monday. The reason for that is because there is a slight possibility we might have to go to court on 8/13. So if I find out I get the job on Monday I can turn in my resignation on Tuesday which means I would be available to start the new job on 8/14.

I'm just glad it's Friday!!

DD has swim class in the morning. We have a birthday party tomorrow afternoon. DD will be staying the night at a friends house so we can go to a "wedding reception" (the couple ran off and got married a couple weeks ago so it's really just an excuse for a party). Then Sunday it's Laundry and pickingup the Service Unit "box" from the Service Unit Manager. Oh! Work on the scrapbooks I have going. LOL!!!
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Thanks for all the support and hugs, girls .

I feel a lot better today and think - well hoping that the weirdo will disappear again.

I feel safer than I did when I totally got thrown for a loop yesterday, ya know.

Well and I feel safer and better because my Dad came home from being gone last night too and because when I went over and saw the boy last night he helped too. He told me that if I did write or talk to this freak that I should write him and tell him that I hope he has a nice life and to leave me the heck alone and that I'm happy and engaged and that my fiancee has a short fuse and will come beat him up if he doesn't leave me alone or comes anywhere near me or my family. Of course I told him I'm not going to say anything because then he would bug me more because he got any kind of response, but it helped to know that my boy's got my back and supports me with the situation and getting rid of the freak too.

So, anyone have exciting plans for the weekend? I want to go watch fireworks with you and your nephew, TGM - that sounds like a lot of fun .

I don't have any big plans for the weekend at the moment...I suppose it's possible that I might go boating tomorrow with my boy and some others, but don't know for sure yet.

Hope everyone's having a great day .
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Here's a thought Anne - we can hook up my sister and your ex...that should keep the two of them busy so they leave us alone!! LOL!! Just a thought...
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Been there done that too Anne! I even kept tabs on my ex-psycho for a while via internet because I was afraid he was going to show up on my doorstep and wanted some warning! It's been 6 1/2 years since I left him and the nightmares are nearly non-existent...

Roni! Don't panic YET! Sometimes, even though you ARE the one, it takes a while to get the info back to you. I'm rooting for you! We all are I think.

Weekend plans, the girls go to my in-laws on Sunday but I have so much work to do, aaaaaaaaaaaa

So nothing nothing nothing exciting this weekend. *SIGH* such is my life right now.
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OMG, it is FINALLY over!

The week, that is. Here on the East Coast. I'm waiting for my friend to get done with her last patient so we can go home.

It is a wine night, for sure. What an awful day!

to give you an idea:

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LOL at the thought of hooking my ex up with your sister, Roni.

It's a thought, but supposedly from what he wrote, if it's the truth, he's married and I feel sorry for whoever married him.

YAY for the weekend !!!
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This has been the longest day!!! Get me outta here!!

DH called again telling me to call the recruiter. I can't do it, for some reason I'm scared to pick up that phone!! LOL!!

I'm bored and I'm tired of looking at those little grid lines in Visio!! I tried to check for home messages via internet and now that is blocked.
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hey, i have a crazy suggestion....LETS NOT CELEBRATE THE WEEKEND UNTIL IT IS ACTUALLY THE WEEKEND FOR MEEEE

I still have two hours, ten minutes....but who's counting???
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