[BrandyHagz]

We are most certainly understanding of the complex emotions that often accompany adoption for all sides of the triad, however, I want to reiterate that the forums at Adoption.com are not the appropriate venue in which to lambaste opposite sides of the triad.

There are a number of triad position specific sites out there, in which users can interact with a specific side without hurting the feelings of other triad members – this site is not one of those. The forums here at Adoption.com are open to EVERY member of the triad and can be posted to and read by anyone on the internet – therefore, we require mutual respect and kindness in ALL posts and ALL interactions between members.

This is becoming an issue more and more, so much so that I felt a site wide warning was in order. If you have questions, feel free to PM me – however understand, this isn’t up for debate. Respect and mutual kindness is an absolute REQUIREMENT for participation here – period.

[Tigger27]

Bumping this up...