[loveccl]

Hey Jackie and all my OLD Birthmomma sisters. I know I never post much, but this is something I had to share.

My ccl's aunt told me he just got a myspace and he wanted to find me and chat. So I sent him an email to say hello. The following is the email I got back from him.

hay what is up i am glad to her from u i have all ways thot of you i havemt cought much fish but when it worms up i will be at the pound my true love is to duck hunt it is all i whont to do eny more thank you for the pressents welli am gitting pritty talli am5 11 and i play baceball tackell football and baskitball i have a game inabout 20minits well i willtalk to you later kay hay dous any one in that part hunt well right back ok this anty the last that you have heard of me lol i mean i now i will right back latter in the week ok love your son ccl


He doesn't hate me...he signed it love your son. I have waited 14.5 yrs for this. I have no clue what to say to him but at the moment I am not mentioning his birth dad because he hasn't asked and the guy is a looser. I know his Amom is worried about our contact, but honestly I am not talking about her either. Well because as some of you know she uses drugs.

I really was just so excited to share!

HUGS...Darcy AKA Loveccl

[quantum]

So cool!!!!

[BrandyHagz]

I've edited the original post and deleted all responses to the original comment.

Regardless of length of membership - you MUST follow our rules. We will NOT tolerate name calling, at all. Period.

If there is an issue, please feel free to PM me.

[Rylee45]

Wow, I'm thrilled for you to have had contact with your son!!! I hope it turns out that you can have a good relationship too.

I'm sorry that his adoptive mom is that kind of person. I know what you feel though about it.

When my daughter was adopted, her parents were absolute nut cases! I'm sure you've read me talking about this enough since you've been here so long.

I didn't know that detail at the time about the adoptive parents because it was a closed adoption as you know, and I didn't have anything to do with the choice of her parents. But her adoptive dad had been in jail the weekend before my daughter was adopted. These people had both been married before and had children in those marriages they brought into the relationship but because the adoptive mom just HAD to have a "girl" baby because she was sick of "boy" babies. It's the ONLY reason they applied for adoption and yet they STILL gave my daughter to these crazy people.

These people were divorced when my daughter was 9 or 10 and was because the adoptive mom cheated on her husband and went and shacked up with some guy for awhile who she then left and found some other guy eventually who she stayed with. So, that's 4 relationships/marriages for this woman and she is STILL considered "the salt of the earth" because she hasn't stuck around in the places she has done the things she's done so no one KNOWS what she is really like. Or who she REALLY is. I've been unfortunate enough to know her and her horrible ways first hand and how she's abused and CONTINUNING to abuse my daughter.

So, in reference to MY daughter's adoptive parents as I said they are whack jobs and unfit to have ever raised any child even a biological child! They don't deserve anyone's respect they especially don't deserve MY respect!

I'm just glad that your son wrote you and you are going to be able to have the abilbity to develope something with him. It's so wonderful. And you DON'T have to respect his adoptive mom or dad! I'm with you on that one!



Again CONGRATULATIONS on the contact.

Rylee

[BrandyHagz]

Rylee,

I've edited your post to remove comments related to deleted content.

If we can't move past the issue, I'd be happy to close the thread.

[Janeytwo]

Brandy,

Just popping in to say thanks for editing.

Much appreciated.

Have a better one! :-)