[JustPeachy]

Originally Posted by Pen2005pal

I am right there along with you. But brace yourself, my story is even worse. This same mother who coerced me into my adoption, is now trying to adopt her own daughters children privately too. Her daughter is a mess and defintely not in the best nature to make a lifelong decision, yet, I can't get her the help she needs.

He is now 19 and has the worst mouth and disrespect for me. He cusses at me and does almost every disrespectful thing you mentioned. I am at the point where I need counceling.

To make matters worse, his mother doesnt' care how he treats me. She has told him lies that represent that I never loved him. He told her he thinks I am a liar about the adoption.

This has taken a tool on me and my health. It has been very destructive to my emotional health and physical health. It has been destructive to my other biological kids, my husband, my family, my minitry and my job as a housewife. I told him I would never leave him again, but I can't do this "punching bag" thing anymore.

I regret my adoption. I was coerced and emotionally foreced by a private adoption and it just wasn't fair. If I had a choice, I would have never have chose them. But I didn't have any choice back then. Long story.

I need a hug someone.

So sorry you are going through this. I can't imagine how hard it must be. Hugs to you.