[Dark Fate]

I just want to take a moment to make sure you know I'm not trying to argue i'm just trying to clear things up so everyone can be at peace.

Thanks

Originally posted by BrandyHagz
This is a public forum, meant for support and advice.

In the past, we have banned members who have brought personal issues to the forum for purposes of argument.

The birth family/adoptive family relationship is a delicate thing, and shouldn’t be argued on a public forum.

I’m sorry…I know that Grandma just wants to be heard…but the arguing just won’t be allowed.

If the members involved in this personal conflict continue to bash each other, then I will be forced to close the thread and ban the members.

[Dark Fate]

One More note to you.
The Reason my wife didnt send a post on here
was she was gone to a Job interview and didnt have time
and besides the e mail was sent.

Anyways,
Thats I'll I will add.
take care.

Originally posted by blmsgrandma
I did not come to this forum to bash anyone.
I think that what I have said it simply the truth as I see it.
I had already written my last response to other before I saw your note.
I did not give any names.
I woudl have been much happier if I were to have written what I have written here and heard the thoughts of others (as I have some), and not been addressed by the spouse of the a-mom in question.
I do not want to spar...only to be heard and try to understand why things are the way that they are.
I feel that I have issues, and that I can express those issues freely. I never said anyhting other than to quote or verbalize my take on things.
I am sorry if it appears that there is a fight.
Believe me, you don't have to ban me, you will hear no more from me if you feel that I cannot come to this forum and speak freely as others have done.
You must realize that what I have said in no way constutes bashing...I have only spoken from what I have seen on this forum and relayed my dismay over it.
I have not said an actual 'bad' word about anyone.

[BrandyHagz]

This forum is not the place to clear up personal matters between a birth family and adoptive family.

This is a forum for support and advice…

Its not open for discussion folks…personal issues don’t belong on a public forum