Members List Photos Events Local Adoption Support Search Arcade Reviews Membership Upgrade
Welcome to the Forums. Register
If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ. You may have to register before you can post or search: click here to proceed. To start viewing messages, select a forum below that you would like to view or click View All of Todays Posts.
Forum Categories
User Name
Password

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 03-23-2003, 10:29 AM
Lorie's Avatar
Lorie Lorie is offline
Member
Join Date: Sep 2002
Posts: 77
Total Points: 1,018.00
Donate
Angry at my Birth Father

I am 34 years of age and have never met my father, luckly I have a picture of my father which gives me visual closure but the picture doesn't give me the answers I need in order to have some type of closure with issues I am dealing with.

My father walked out of mine and my mothers life when I was born (4-22-69). My mother at the age of 22 and single went to court for proof that he was my father and for me to be able to at least carry his name. Unfortunately there was no DNA at the time and it was his word against my mother the judge ruled his my fathers favor. I have contacted my Birth Grandfather and have talked to him 3 or 4 times in a 10 years span and each time I talk to him when I tell him who I am who my mother is he knows exactly who I am...but at the same time he will not give me any information that I need in order to make contact with my father.

Why is am I such a secret? It angers me to know that after I was born he was married total 6 to 7 times over the years and just the last time I spoke with BGF he told me that in 70 or71 that he had a son.

This is where it gets personal for me. If I have siblings which I am sure I have...my BF has no right to take that away from me. I have a right and so do my siblings to get to know each other. I have excepted the fact that I will probably never meet my BF that is fine. But I am tired of being hid in the closet there are no minors involved I really don't care about disrupting his precious little life. I am human I have rights and if I can't get the answers I need in order to close this chapter in my life then I have to get them from someone else who in some way is related. These are some of issues that I have to express and I just want to thank all those who took the time to read this. Please if you are related in any way please pm or post...Thanks again

Birth Grandfather: Jim Frizzell
Birth Grandmother: Milly Frizzell (pasted away years ago)
Birth Father: George Frizzell
Birth Mom: Marilyn Kay Copeland
Date of Birth: 4-22-69
Born: Pheonix, AZ
Hospital: St. Joseph Hospital

Lorie
Reply With Quote
Ready for Adoption?
Adoption Network Law Center
Adoption Network Law Center
Want to Adopt? Click here.
Click here to be helped in California!
Adoption Network Law Center
Pregnant? Click here.
Adoption Network Law Center
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Reply: 5.00


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 06:37 PM.


Ready for Adoption?
Adoption Network Law Center
Adoption Network Law Center
Want to Adopt? Click here.
Click here to be helped in California!
Adoption Network Law Center
Pregnant? Click here.
Adoption Network Law Center