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Originally Posted By For Christina

Dear child, stop obsessing about how lonely you are and DO SOMETHING with yourself and your life!! I have seen your posts 10000000000000 times! Finding your b-parents is not going to make you or your life all happy and perfect! Believe me, I feel your pain even though you may think I'm a wench.....but my God! Talk to other people or get some counceling for crying out loud! Be proactive and get moving! This is not your practice life, this os your real life! Make the most of it!

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Originally Posted By Sandra

Finding out who you are and knowing your natural family can and will do wonders for you,make your life "real".Good luck to you.It is a lonely life being a product of adoption.
Sandra
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Originally Posted By Cynic

"you may think I'm a wench" Yes. She is doing something by coming here and asking for help. If you do not have any advice for her, anonymous poster, then you should keep your comments to yourself. Where was your suggestion for her to look? Searching can be a very difficult task and many don't know even where to start.
To Christina: I unfortunately don't have much information about searching. You might try asking how to search on the adoptees board, they might have some tips for you. Please ignore the comment of the angry wench that does not understand the frustration involved with searching.

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Originally Posted By christina

OK, LISTEN!!!! DO YOU KNOW HOW AWFUL IT IS NOT KNOWING YOUR BROTHER OR YOUR SISTER!!!!! U HAVE NO CLUE DONT TELL ME TO SGHUT UP BECAUSE IM CRYING... WOW.. I WANT TO SEE MY BROTHER AND MY SISTER DO NOT GIVE ME NEGATIVE ADVICE ALRIGHT YOU WENCH... WOW I CANT BELIEVE THIS... I THINK U SHULD GET BAND FROM AOL

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Originally Posted By Lisa

Please don't let the negativity of others dampen the enthusiasm for your search. We all have our stories some good and some bad. I am fortunate enough tohave a great one butI know its not like like that for all. I came here first to get support and now to offer support which is what I thought these boards were for. If you have had a bad experience don't come in here spouting off and trying to scare people who already have their own fears. Good or bad there are people here tooffer you comfort and help and please don't listen to the ignorant people who just broadcast their fear, hatred and bitterness to anyone who will listen. Good luck in your search and stay positive.

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Originally Posted By Finally got your attention

Christina...i sent you that message to get your attention. didnt mean to hurt you. you always leave the same message posted, and i think you would feel better getting more out of your system! So i am glad you responded back. You have had a breakthrough in self expression!! All of us are here for you. i DO feel your pain. I recently met my half brother and sister after years, and i am saddened a bit that i missed out growing up with them. please, please, talk more about how you are feeling....like when you responded back to me..."the wench" hey, i am adoptee and a birthmom. i would be glad to help you in anyway. please take my advise, and get involved in a group, or some kind of activity. i am sure you are lonely. Be a "Generator" and generate good and positive things for YOU! You deserve it Christina. Again, I apoligize about how i responded back to you, but i think you made a big step in expressing more about how you feel. you go girl! we are here for you.