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Originally Posted By Amom

Just FYI...I have been in touch with CHS of Florida. I have communicated with the Director of Adoption and the Coordinator of the facility. My purpose was to tell them about "Sandra." They are well aware of her. It doesn't even appear that that is her real name. They have also accessed this site, and have copies of her posts. "Sandra" will hopefully be put to rest soon.

By the way, I have no relationship with CHS. I am an amom loving in a completely different state, so it's not like they have anything to gain from me. I am just sick of this nonsense and felth they should know. Apparently Adoptions.com can't stop her, but hopefully the authorities can.

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Originally Posted By Meliss

Wait a minute...What ever happened to free speech? Why supress Sandra's thoughts? Her opinions? You don't like them...then don't read them! I am offended that you took such an action. Should I then attempt to supress your opinions. No- that wouldn't happen because you are the supposed positive side of adoption...the savior - the adoptive parent. Sheesh - I hope you aren't the type that keeps the truth from your kids...supresses the truth to 'protect' them.

You have done nothing honerable in steifling an opposing view.

I - for one - am not impressed.
a BIRTHMOTHER!

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Originally Posted By Sandra

,,no worry,she is not stiffling me at all.

Ahh,,maybe she felt better..but she really should be taking care of her "child".I am terribly concerned about that.Being a Mother,I know how much attention they need.Sure can't get it if she is on here.Maybe she is just a hopeful Mommy? Let's pray that is the case and she REALLY doesn't have a child in her care.

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Originally Posted By Sandra

Hi amama,
Next time you talk to them make sure you give them this info will ya?

www.cartogra.com...visit public albums,,,,sandrab05

Just in case they missed it..

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Originally Posted By L

Like what you have to say means anything either? Gee, these birthmom's are soooo "uptight" geesh!

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Originally Posted By Cynic

"these birthmom's are soooo "uptight" geesh!". Can you read. It was the amom that was being "uptight" and contacted the "authorities". Your ignorance is showing. If you really don't care what she says than why do you respond to her?

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L reads what the rest of us read here, Cynic. A bunch of uptight birthmom's ranting and raving. Amom is just posting like ole Sandt & you have, nothing wrong with that??

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Originally Posted By Cynic

Is that you again Coward? First, I don't do a lot of ranting and raving, mainly I lay down the smack for people who deserve it, such as you.
I still believe L has a little trouble reading the big words. If you are going to say that nobody cares, than why do so many respond????
I have found that the birthmoms here are the least the same. The birthmoms have various oppinions and attitudes in regards to adoption from adoption is all bad to adoption is the best thing for them.
The adoptive parents are the ones that seem to be the most uptight and sensitive. "I called CHS", "Don't judge me" "you don't know what its like to be infertile". I could go on....so I will, "the adoption process is so long", "adoption is so expensive", "the birthmother changed her mind" "people say insensitive thing to me". Don't worry you have my pity.

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Originally Posted By Gail

First of all, who are you to "lay down the smack", whatever kind of slang that is, and now you decide who deserves it? Did it ever occur to you some may think you deserve it? You are very good at telling all of us your opinion but then you seem to get a little upset and well, "lay down the smack" for others. I am a bmom and don't appreciate being judged, I don't appreciate others saying the child I placed is a loser. (shame on me too) but yes, I have made some comments to try and make a point at how each of us are so eager to make our opinions the "right" one. Fact is, there isn't anyone who can tell us what is right and wrong for our own lives. If Sandra and others can be so insulting they should expect to be bashed, don't dish out what you cannot take. Furthermore, of course, you won't stop anyone from posting as you stated below, you don't have that sort of authority. Your remarks are egotistical and self-righteous. Where do you get off telling others they shouldn't insult people then you lower yourself to that same level. You believe "L" has a hard time reading big words? What kind of a comment was that? I already know, it was one of immaturity.
I am simply laying down the smack for those who deserve it, cynic, such as you.

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Originally Posted By for Gail

Thank you!

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Originally Posted By me

If L has trouble reading what's your PROBLEM! The middle of your post is jumbled. You are trying to be a little Sandra and it's not working.

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Originally Posted By Cynic

Thanks for the name, keep using it. If you can't acknowledge your own words than it must not be woth saying. "Don't dish out what you cannot take." HAHAHAHA!!! Bring it on!
"I am a bmom and don't appreciate being judged, I don't appreciate others saying the child I placed is a loser" I have never called any group as a whole in the adoption triad a loser, especially adoptees.
"I am simply laying down the smack for those who deserve it, cynic, such as you." Go ahead, I think you are almost getting the point. Have a happy day and God bless you!

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Originally Posted By means something....

Yes,it means something,,if nothing else ,,it gets L's,amoms,and others,,uptight and frighten...exposing them for what and who they really are..

www.cartogra.com..public albums..sandrab05