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Originally Posted By Amom

If you take the time to look on the internet, Children's Home Society is a national organization with offices in NC, Minnesota, Georgia, etc.

Also, there are two different websites for the one in FL. One has the opening you retyped in one of your messages. The other one has all the information about their services and who they are. There is also an e-mail address. Maybe you should send your messages to them. Or the better business bureau. But, we have heard it too may times and are getting bored.

Can we move on to another subject?

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Originally Posted By sandra

There is nothing you can tell me about the Childrens Home Society of Florida that I don't already know. Evidently,you have no sense of humor at all.It may bore you to hear about it but I am not tired of telling about it.Move on to any subject you please.I might be bored,but I will read it.

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Originally Posted By birthmother

What will your son think when he reads all of this ? Adoption has changed so much in the past 30 years.

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Originally Posted By Sandra .....a Mother

You are so wrong,,,very little has changed..very little ,,,just a different style,,,same ole game....
My son,,,well,he will most definitely be reading everything here when the time is right.Right now...he is just living and enjoying life,He deserves it and we are trying to make it without a care in the world.....he has the mentality of a 17 year old....a computer is as foreign to him as a spaceship is to me...My son knows I love him,always have and knows,without a doubt how his "adoption" came about.He has proof of our love,not only since we found him but even before.My son is happy,but he will live with the horror of his adoption for the rest of his life.
What will he think?? Of what I am doing? He would understand as he has a lot of anger for being kept from his "family" for so long....I think he would laugh and be proud of his "taurus,the bull" mother..I have not told him as he wants to forget everything about his life before we found him.I honor that and do not speak of it.When he is ready,then he will be ready.I know my son,I always have...he would laugh and say,,,,give em hell,mom! And I am...

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I just worry about all this anger in your heart. I care about you and your son, but I am most concerned about your health....

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not to worry,,everything working great on this bod....got a lot of years left..If you have to worry,direct it were it would do the most good.. about more important things....and,,,hey,worry is not good for you.You should do SOMETHING,anything,just don't sit there! I think that was good advise from,,,, someone.
Anger is only bad for your health if you deny it and keep it bottled up inside...I,obviously,do not keep it inside.not anymore..not since I KNOW why I am angry.Try and meditate,,works wonders and leads you to the right path,you need to take.

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Originally Posted By meditation

Yes Sandra, such wonderfula dvice. I can't for the life of me figure out why this person is even concerned about you? You want to be angry, you love lashing out....don't worry about this one, a ray of sunshine would send Sandra over the edge, gotta keep her in the dark!

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Originally Posted By re: meditation

ignorance is bliss,I hear?

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yes, and you certainly have proven that here! {smile}

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Originally Posted By sandra

yes, and you certainly have proven that here! {smile


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She certainly has.

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You are sooooo good with the comebacks, Sandra.....

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Originally Posted By Meliss

I have to use this wonderful analogy that I got from another veteran birthmom - one that has been down the road of adoption for many years...
Open Adoptions of today are the same dog on a new leash.

Just a thought