[Free_to_be_me]

I agree that the child absolutely deserves the financial support of both parents.

[kakuehl]

Paula, it's been several months. How is your co-worker doing?

[kakuehl]

Bumping this thread up again.

[hideyho]

Originally Posted by Patty-cake

I do not think it would be a good thing. The man is married. His wife and possible other children are innocent. Unless she needs money to care for the child she should let it go. If he has a change of heart he can introduce the child. Otherwise why bring knowledge of the affair to people not involved and who most likely do not want to know? He is the guilty party. Just my opinion.

I really don't agree with this, this man is hurting his family. He is deceptive, not this new baby. Why should this child suffer the loss of paternal relatives for his father's inability to "keep his pants in his own dresser drawers"? Why should daddy continue to go around having all these dirty little affairs. The wife is already hurt, not knowing it doesn't make it less of a betrayal.

[makhaze]

Hi everyone. It's been a long time since I have been on here. Didn't have a computer for some time. Just wanted to update a little on this. I no longer work where i did when I knew this lady, but the last time I talked to her she said that "he is a good man" and she would never do anything to mess up his life. Personally, i think her ideal of "good" is a little twisted.

[healingfeeling]

wow, thanks for the update...i feel bad for the child and its siblings. ;(

[kune]

I'm relieved that any decision she made was her own and that she is happy with it.
IMHO It's not up to us to work out who is the victim and who is wicked. We only know one side of the story.

Ann