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Old 01-18-2007, 10:05 AM
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Michele, I was reading your signature and thinking about the God's will ... will be done. Our problem as humans is so often we tell God what his will is instead of listening! I find a lot of help and hope in the Psalms. Two verses especially from Ps. 46: "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble" and later in the same psalm, "Be still and know that I am God."

Stop and take a few deep breathes when you are anxious. Let the silence roll over you and listen for God's presence. (I can only say this helps me.)
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Old 01-20-2007, 10:31 PM
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Your story is so beautiful...I wish that could be me. I wish I could have had part of the boys life in anyway...pictures....sending gifts, whishing a happy birthday, but for nwo I am going to let GOD direct me in the way of his will. I love this site and I wish I could meet you...you sound like a very spaecial lady..I will never forget the story you shared with us. Good Luck!!!
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Fragments of memory
of years gone by
The pain, the sorrow
A tear in my eye

The day long ago
I walked away
An ache in my heart
I wanted to stay

A Mothers love
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A broken heart
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You and I
How sad the day
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Old 01-20-2007, 10:55 PM
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Thanks so much for your compliments and comments on my story, Michele .

I hope something works out for you in the future with your boys. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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Old 01-20-2007, 11:03 PM
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Thank You...u r so kind
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The pain, the sorrow
A tear in my eye

The day long ago
I walked away
An ache in my heart
I wanted to stay

A Mothers love
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A broken heart
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We will meet some day
You and I
How sad the day
I said good bye
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Old 02-21-2007, 01:34 PM
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As an adoptee can I just tell you that your story brought tears to my eyes and made me email my bmom just to say "thank you, you are so loved"!!!
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Old 02-21-2007, 01:49 PM
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Thanks so much, Cnb .

I hope things are going well for you with your reunion with your bmom .
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Old 02-24-2007, 05:52 PM
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Anne, I just noticed your current wedding date: Are you planning a really wild 4 month party? I'll gladly officiate.
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Old 02-24-2007, 08:30 PM
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LOL Kathy, nope, no wild 4 month party - that's just the time frame of when the wedding will happen.

We just decided it could be as early as September and no later than December lol.

We already have someone planned to officiate and do the wedding for us, but thanks for the offer though, I really appreciate it .
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Old 02-24-2007, 08:34 PM
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I assumed that was the case... a four month wild party sounds like a blast though doesn't it?

As far as officiating - any thing for a Savvy sister
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Old 02-24-2007, 08:39 PM
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Yeah a 4 month wild party or vacation would be great, wouldn't it...

Where would you go for a 4 month party or vacation?
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Old 02-24-2007, 08:43 PM
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Hmm. the Bahamas or another Tropical Island with blue, blue water (and cabana boys)

Or maybe a road trip party... like a progressive dinner... move from one town to the next across the country. (Picking up all you adoption.com friends along the way...)
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Old 02-24-2007, 08:49 PM
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