[loveccl]

I have had minimal contact with the adoptive aunt of my son for about 8 months now. Some how she keeps giving me information that worries me. This is her latest email in responce to her saying that she wanted to send a pic but then didn't and felt like she was back at square one. I appreciate every email...but the more I know the more I can't believe I put my baby in his amoms arms. I can't do anything about this but thought I'd share anyway cause maybe you all have thoughts.

HI im sorry about the square one thing its just in my head i will feel like a trader every time i see my sister i dont know why because she has lied and practickly stole from me and it dont bother her. in my heart i know chance would love to know you still care and have pictures of him cause hes so cute and i feel its all going to be up to me some day to see to it this all happens because she dont give anything beyond whats in front of her a thuoght these days and shes not real healthy either. i worry about what might happen if they even know i email you so please dont ever say anything to them . i have been saving all the emails so i have them one day and my mom has all the other important things so it dont get lost because they move so much because of work.i have to go to the store so i will email you later.kelly


Love hugs and respect,

Loveccl

[hannah50]

Can you completely trust the information you are getting from this woman? I mean are you 100% sure she's not got a grudge or something against her own sister, because unless it's a dire situation I could not imagine one sister meddling so much in anothers personal business. Especially business of THIS sort. If I were you I'd make a call to the Amom herself, not bring up this issue at all, but have a normal every day chat and see what you can gleen that way.

Is it possible for you to call the Amom and see what's up?

[Montraviatommyg]

loveccl,

Just want to let you know I'm thinking of you ... I do follow your posts even though I don't often respond to the same threads. I have to agree with hannah can you trust with this woman and can you contact amum?

Please keep us informed even if you need to vent.

Pip

[loveccl]

You both brought up a great point...The sister did not approach me. I approached her and in the one phone call we had I felt like she was honest and loving. I feel that she has a soft spot in her heart for me. I know that she loves my son. Some how everything she says fits with everything I have put together. Its hard all the pieces to this puzzle. I honestly feel like she is my link to my son. I feel that she knows her sister didn't quite keep a promiss that she made. It wasn't just a little promiss either. Yes....I believe every word that Kelly has told me. The amom knows how to get in touch with me her parents have my contact info. I hold on to every shred of info she gives me. I don't think she is doing this to attack her sister the amom. I think she is just being honest with me. Sad thing is I feel like she is holding alot back and there is alot more to this chaos my son lives than what his aunt tells me. I guess all I can do is be here if she ever needs me to be for my son.

Thanks for your thoughts, but I really just feel like my son was kidnapped and he is not with the people I gave him to.

Loveccl

[abcg1977]

Loveccl- As an adoptee I am worried for your son. I have caught up on you this morning because of something I read. I am sorry you were attacked on another thread. I think I will reply to privately on that tho. I am worried for you both tho. It sounds to me like you are a very interested b-mom and only want to know your son has the life you were promised he would have and you are being cut off now. That really disturds me. I really admire b-mom who are strong enough to relinquish and then get a periodic "slide show" if you will of their baby's life in another's family.

I hope things get better, Please keep us updated.