[tamaha54]

Yes, I found him and I was not prepared for his reaction.
I searched in the area he was last known to reside for a number and found 3 he was the 2nd one I called.
I asked him if he knew my mother (I used here maiden name) he said yes and I informed him she says I am your son and he said I dont think so and hung up.
This was several years ago. 8 To be exact.
Should I try again? What do you think?
Should I go to his address unannounced?
I am so confused.
My mother told me his mother seen me several times before she died.
I would like to know if I have siblings or there is a medical history I should know about.
His name is Gary Winn and he was last known to live in Mesquite, Texas. He would be mid to upper 50's now.
If you can help or If, you, Gary are looking for me now I can be reached through this forum. Thank You

[slmon]

Well, if you do approach him again, you probably shouldn't just show up on his doorstep. He'd probably be even more abrupt with you than the way he was on the phone. His rapid hang-up on you initially makes me think that he probably does have something to hide. Not sure that I'd want much contact with him, actually. However, if you have fortified yourself and want to attempt at least one more time, go for it with the awareness that you might not welcome what he has to say. Good luck and take care of yourself. His lack of interest reflects on him, not on you.