[looking2foster.adopt]

I met my birthmother when i was 13 and at first i was angry because she wasn't the person i dreamed she was,but now we have a great relationship and i have two little sisters ages 6 and 1 i'm so happy i met her. I love her sooo much. I have also been in contact with my birthfather but i don't really want to meet him or my uncles because they drink a lot and i don't want to be around that. I'm now 25 and looking to foster kids,because i was one for 7 years and then adopted where i was then told i was a mistake. It wasn't a match made in heaven but they still clothed me,fed me,schooled me etc. so i at least have that part to thank for.

[cetalley]

GOD does not make mistakes,I am not sure who told you this , your parents who adopted you or your Firstmom??? Regardless, you were brought into this world with many who loves you, you are 1 unique person,and you were put on this earth for a reason. I am a Firstmom, yet to find my twin sons, who are now 22. The only mistake in my nightmare was, I was so naive at 25 yrs old. None of us have perfect families and as adults we all say something stupid, for we are human. I also have a 29 yr old son, that I raised and love with all that I am, as I do my twins. I told my son at one point, a few years ago," I know we are all here for a purpose, I still at my age (45 at the time) do not know why." His reply was so honest and loving, he made it sound so simple: " Mom you were put her to specificly be MY mom." I hold on to his words daily and hope for one day to meet my twins. You, my dear, were put here to just be someones mom! Please keep coming and talking, we are good here at a.com at listening and giving our 2 cents worth....