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Old 02-17-2009, 04:02 PM
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Cross post/ a lil update finally...

Ok so I was web surfing last night and got the number to the Licensing Dept in Trenton ( ya know making sure I had the number just in case ) I also found my RFW's Supervisors number - I was going to call him today because I hadn't heard anything from RFw since 1/29 when she pretty much told me "dont call me I'll call you" and her also not returning my call since 2/9 - well low and behold I get a call today - she wants to schedule our last homestudy before sending it to Licensing - WHAT - ok she sets a date and hangs up - I just sit there dumbfounded - I call her back and casually ask her to give me the steps to finally becoming licensed since we have been going at this since July. She says since she hasn't seen us since December she has to send a new one ( back story - since they had to withdrawl our application because they dragged their feet ; we had to reapply with the date of 12/6/08 ) that all we need now is to submit our final homestudy to Trenton to be approve - so that they can in return send out the inspector for licensing.... I am just spent
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Old 02-17-2009, 06:54 PM
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Sooooooo, does this mean EVERYTHING is all clear???? No surprises or excuses later on???
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Sooooooo, does this mean EVERYTHING is all clear???? No surprises or excuses later on???

I hope not - I am just spent with this whole process - I am not saying that they had no right to delay the process until the waivers were done - I get it I truly do - but for the most part all that was needed was a bit more of open communication - I have been riding my RFW the whole time - When ffirst/last time we meet with her and her supervisor I had a detailed timeline of the phone calls and the time in between she finally called me back - and lets just say even though he did try to "CHA" he did raise his eyebrow on it and depending on how this last homestudy goes I will send him another timeline from when we last spoke. It is astounding the hoops we had to go thru. Thanks for letting me vent - I just have to either pray and not stress or not pray and stress,,,
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