[Squeak1129]

Came across this website on a Google search-- what a great resource! I have spent the last day or so just skimming the posts for information and have learned quite a bit already. Thanks!

Anyways, why I'm really here... I have been toying with the idea of becoming a foster parent. I'm a 24 year old single female currently serving as an officer on active duty in the Army. Since I was little, providing for children has been my calling. (The military was just a small deviation... ) Having worked in day camps and as a nanny for the 6 years B.A. (Before Army), I truly miss my kids!

Many frown upon military foster parenting because of the challenges we face surrounding Iraq and Afghanistan; the instability, moving, changes, etc. I know that I will be stabilized in either TN or GA for the next 36 months, with no upcoming deployment time-- Been there, done that!

I guess I'm looking for some input and thoughts from the experienced crowd. What's your take? I have tough skin--- no need to be shy.

[shy_bear]

I think it is wonderful that you want to be a fp, but as a single active duty military member I would say wait until you are done your service. My hubby is active duty Army; there are NEVER any guarentees first off. He has been in for 15 yrs. What if you have to do training exercises, what if you have 24 hr duty, etc. Are you going to put the child/children in respite each time. They really need stability and routine. I would suggest you look at ways of volunteering with kids in your community or become a respite provider.

[mommy2fiveplus]

I second the respite provider thought. I persoanlly think that all foster parents should start out with respite anyway, just to get thier feet wet and get accustommed to the systems ins and outs. Also this would be great for you because it could work around your schedule and would provide a much needed service for other foster parents without jeprodizing the stability of foster children.