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Old 10-21-2008, 08:54 AM
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Help! Progressing but now a new problem

Our dd is 5 yrs old. She has been home just over a year. We have worked through a lot of the typical difficulties(Aggression, stealing, running away, ect.) After consistent therapy helping her rekindle emotions within and then working through the physical abuse she experienced things have gone MUCH BETTER. We have suddenly had a fun little girl who does and says cute things and think beyond herself to help others sometimes--I have been so relieved to say the least. Anyway, recently we have a new trick going on...She is peeing in peculiar places. Her dresser drawers, the brother's big block can(fortunately, involving a metal container and plastic blocks--unfortunately, leaking on the brand new carpet) and her little sister's wipe containers (yes the little plastic tubs)--any insight for me? Are we looking at a control issues, self esteem issues. I imagine some of both. Any experienced folks out there who can clue me in. So far, we have had her clean it all up talked about it, expressed my anger, and talked about how the toilet is the place--the ONLY place. I have also decied to eliminate the pullups for nighttime. So far, 1 wet night and the next a dry night....Tell me what you know please!
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7/06 begin research into adoption
8/06 decide on Guatemala
9/06 chose an agency....
later in 9/06 rethink agency
9/06-10/06 research agencies in more detail
10/9/06 Call about Katerin--DOB*6.12.06
Continue to research agencies
10/26/06 WE Find EMILY-DOB*8.19.03
10/27/06 Sign with agency--moving forward!!!
11/2/06 Sign with agency:Katerin
11/30 Emily & Katerin's dossier sent to Guatemala
12/06-1/07 waiting for news...
2/20-25 Visit trip to GC
2/26-28 Vacation in Antigua
2/29 HOME (DNA test results in the mailbox)
It's a match!
3/15 DNA preapproval for K& Family Court
3/22 PREAUTHORIZATION FOR E
3/30 PA is being held for "investigation on our file"
4/16 DNA test for K!!
4/20 hold released
5/3 Katerin's DNA results--a match!
6/10 waiting on PA from US E
6/22 E is OUT of PGN!
7/5 PA for K
8/8 Emily is HOME!!!
8/23 K is IN PGN!!!
11/13 K is out!!!!
2nd DNA 11/22
Embassy 12/11/07
HOME FOREVER!!!!

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Old 10-22-2008, 06:29 PM
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I don't have any words of wisdom or advice. Just sending you support on what I know is a dificult issue.
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Old 10-27-2008, 10:15 PM
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never dealt with this...I just wanted to add my sympathies.
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