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Old 12-21-2004, 01:35 PM
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Question Low Cost African American Adoptions?

Hello! I am not new to this forum, just been a long time since I've posted and I had to register a new name since I forgot my other one and password!

My husband and I have been trying for nearly a year to adopt our final baby, preferably full African American. Due to a recent birthmother scam that took nearly $5500 of our already limited funds after a 5 month match, we only have about $8500 left.

Does anyone know of any adoptions that can be completed for under $10,000? I have a few emails out to various attorneys and agencies, but with the holidays, I think people are slower at responding than usual.

If there is anyone that can help, it would be much appreciated! Thanks so much in advance! -Susan
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Old 12-21-2004, 02:08 PM
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I have taken the liberty of pm-ing you with a suggestion. I hope it helps and that your son or daughter will find your arms soon.

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Old 12-21-2004, 02:08 PM
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Susan, welcome back! Send a PM to Linny . . . she's a member here who has put together a resource list that may be helpful to you. As an amom with 7 children, this lady knows what she's talking about, and is one of the nicest people you'll encounter around here.

Best of luck to you.

Peace and blessings,

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Old 12-21-2004, 02:10 PM
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Linny . . . we posted at the same time!!! Great minds . . . thinking alike.

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Old 12-21-2004, 02:12 PM
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I would also love to see the list that you have compiled..
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Old 12-22-2004, 08:31 AM
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me too, please!

I would be grateful to have a copy of the list as well.

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Old 12-22-2004, 07:41 PM
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Me three...

can you please PM me with the above-mentioned list?

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Old 12-24-2004, 02:07 PM
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Thanks Linny

Hi Linny,

I've seen you talk about your list, could I get a copy too?
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Old 12-26-2004, 11:43 AM
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me too,please!

HI LINNY:
I would also love to see the list that you have compiled.
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Old 12-26-2004, 06:42 PM
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Linny,
You are very popular!!! I would be very interested in receiving a copy of that list also. Thank you so much.
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Old 12-27-2004, 12:59 PM
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can I join in the request, Linny?? THANKS!!
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Old 12-27-2004, 06:17 PM
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Me too, I would really appreciate that list. Thanks so much, Bonnie
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Old 12-27-2004, 11:26 PM
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Linny,
I would also like a copy of the list
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I have taken the liberty of pm-ing you with a suggestion. I hope it helps and that your son or daughter will find your arms soon.

Sincerely,

Linny
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Old 12-29-2004, 01:40 PM
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Oh my. We're really "piling on" now, aren't we Linny? Sorry about that ... your list is very popular! I sent you a PM also. This is my first official post after 6 months of lurking -- I feel so liberated!

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Old 12-29-2004, 10:17 PM
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You know....I think I'm keeping up with it though.........
Someone pm'ed me and said they had emailed me, but I hadn't replied. I seldom check that email address.....so to anyone who has done it that way, remember to pm me. I check this forum daily.
And no, I really don't mind. This is the purpose of the list, and if it can just keep one couple from losing money, from dealing with a nasty agency or attorney (I don't recommend facilitators...illegal in IL, though I know some 'get around that'....)......then I'll feel good about it all!
There's just too much 'business' garbage about adoption anymore, and it's become a basic catch all for those who are looking to make money from adoptive couples. (woo-HOO? Can't you just HEAR those negative feedback marks FLYIN' NOW?????)

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