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Re: Adopting after bio child
Originally Posted By Canula
When we finally decided to adopt I started having this great fear of getting a ugly baby! I could not possibly love an ugly child the same as my handsome 4 year old bio son. I too would lay awake at night wondering if I should just retreat out of the whole thing. But finally we were placed with a beautiful blue eyed girl who matches our family to a T!
I think you have every right to worry about what kind of child you will get and if you will love him/her. I did the same silly worrying when I was pregnant with my son. All moms think about those things. Can I love him if he is handicapped? Can I love him if he is deformed? Can I love him if he turns out to be a girl? (heaven forbid if the sonigram was wrong!) I think you are being prefectly normal.
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09-14-2002, 11:33 PM
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