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Originally Posted By Stephanie

Sept. 4th 1988, at 11:50 a.m. I gave birth to a beautiful 8lb 2oz baby girl, I named her Justine Richelle. With profound grief and agonizing pain I placed her for adoption, I was 18. I tried for the first 6 mo. to "undo" the adoption, but couldn't find any help, I never had a "support group", never met ANYONE else who had placed their child, and I was left to feel as though I was no longer of any "use" to the family she was placed with, after the first year. For almost 14 years I have endured, and shed millions of tears for the loss of my daughter. I managed to go on with my life and now have a 10 yr old son and 5 yr old identical twin boys. I don't REGRET my decision, only that I couldn't be the one to raise her and be there for her every first in life. I pray her adoptive family has loved her as much I have loved her EVERYDAY since the day she was born, and always will. No other pain in life could compare to the pain of making a decision like placing a child for adoption. To all of you that have searched for and found your bfamily and were rejected, it's their loss, not yours. I pray each and every day, my bdaughter will someday have a desire to find her bfamily, until then, I count the days.

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Originally Posted By stacy

I too gave my children up for adoption at the time it was the best thing in the world for them its been close to 13yrs since i have seen my oldest. I think of them everyday it makes me very sad to think of it. I hope and pray one day we will see each other again. I too have a new child. my little girl jazmine will be 1 years old in august. Children are a gift dont abuse it

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Originally Posted By Stephanie

Stacy,
I too think of my daughter everyday, and her three biological brothers are the greatest gift. I pray everynight that she'll want to reunite with me and meet them. My biggest fear is that she may not, and it scares me to think that, so I try to stay focused on a positive future, and hope she has my determination and will be knocking on my door in a few years. I love her with all my heart and want for nothing more than for her to have a blessed life and for her to know this. Thank you for responding, I'll pray for your reunion as well.

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Originally Posted By bmom of Sarah 11/08/1990

I too have a daughter that was placed for adoption at birth. I can't wait to see her again. I love her and miss her. She is 11 years old now, 7 to go. My fear is her rejecting me. I have faith in God and I know our prayers for a reunion will be answered. lol

[angelwithasmile]

I was forced to give my son up for adoption through coercian, lies, and a very uncaring irish society.....I am now reunited with my son since nov 2000 and also have 3 other children, ages 19 17 16 my son will be 21 on 22nd December I hope that all birth mothers and their lost children been reunited soon.....








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[wakebaby2007]

where was she adopted at???

[Cwhitewolf65]

Where was your daughter born, and put up for adoption?

[KaydensMama]

You guys are brave and ANGELS. For people like me who can't have children or can't carry children, it you guys who make that dream of being a mom come true. I have a son now who is my bio child but was carried by my fiancee's sister. We thank her for the oven time for him every day we look into his eyes and he smiles. He is such a gift from god. We are adopting from russia and it's people just likeyou guys who are handing over there little one. I am sorry you miss it and just know in your heart 95% of adoptive parents cherish their children and I am sure your BC is being well cared for, maybe even spoiled.