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Old 09-03-2012, 12:46 PM
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what's the next step?

I don't understand why I can't get more non-identifying records from FLA I sent a written request and got hardly anything, just My Mother was 21, and from a southern state. I didn't get any on bio-dad or any other bio-family!
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Old 09-03-2012, 05:39 PM
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State records? I know many don't collect much on anything but the mother. Your bmom may not have named your bfather.

Try the agency that handled your adoption. They most likely had social workers that did extensive interviews. My non-id from the agency was 10 pages long.
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Old 09-04-2012, 04:47 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I did try the agency. They say the adoption was closed and the record number is not known, I don't know what that means. My Mother would be 63 now if still alive. I feel time is running out.
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:08 PM
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Try one of the search angels. My adoption was closed, and in 67. My agency found mine! What a cop out. There are ways.
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Old 09-04-2012, 02:35 PM
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good for you! I have struggled all my life w this emptiness, An adoptive Dad that is dying and doesn't reach out, My adoptive Mom Dying when I was but 9 years old, a wicked stepmom who only cares for her own. I don't even know what else to say. struggle.
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Old 09-05-2012, 04:13 PM
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I'm sorry Blush. Rough time! I've lost my Adad and it's tough watching them go through this, no matter the circumstances.
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Old 01-06-2013, 10:58 AM
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My adoptive Dad has passed away last month. He was my hero. I am in a bad situation(relationship) and my dream is to turn over a new leaf back in FLA. I don't have any more ties in this area
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Blush- who is the agency? have you signed up with International Soundex Reunion Registry?
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