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Old 11-06-2009, 10:39 AM
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Where did everyone go?

Whats up? What are you doing?


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Old 11-06-2009, 01:42 PM
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I usually read and type here and there between working and doing chores all friggin day everyday (working at home has it's benefits too....)

But today I am blowing and raking leaves til my arm gets numb, and trying to xmas shop online before everyone comes home!
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Old 11-06-2009, 02:05 PM
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I usually read without any time to type lol
I have THE busiest semester in college this year and I come here and read in my spare time LOL

I'm just trying to work hard this semester and get good grades so I can co-op (paid internship) next semester.
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Old 11-06-2009, 02:14 PM
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sigh-- I've been hesitant to post... Either I'm getting paranoid or I feel like there are lurkers who are interested in doing more harm than good... I'm middle-of-the-road and seem to be 'getting it' from both people who want adoptions to stay closed & people who want unadulterated birth certificates and feel like I'm betraying our cause... I feel more confused than ever...
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Old 11-06-2009, 03:52 PM
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I've been out of work since Sep 30th so I am not in front of a computer like I used to be.
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Old 11-06-2009, 03:57 PM
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sigh-- I've been hesitant to post... Either I'm getting paranoid or I feel like there are lurkers who are interested in doing more harm than good... I'm middle-of-the-road and seem to be 'getting it' from both people who want adoptions to stay closed & people who want unadulterated birth certificates and feel like I'm betraying our cause... I feel more confused than ever...

You know what though? They win if you stop posting and being an advocate for what you believe in. You have a great passion and voice for so many and I'd really hate to see you lose that.

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Old 11-06-2009, 04:05 PM
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Nicely said Crick.

I've been at work, dealing with a sick husband, and trying to figure out this reunion stuff.

Then again, I don't post daily anyway.
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Old 11-06-2009, 04:47 PM
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epenn,

Thats the problem with having the ability to see both sides....everyone hates you...LOL....been there done that...

I have not been around as much, currently working 2 part time jobs...and the new one is taking a little more time then I thought..oh well.
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Old 11-06-2009, 05:06 PM
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Thats the problem with having the ability to see both sides....everyone hates you...LOL....

Yes! I'm making enemies all over the place!

So, I had a reporter call me. I talked to him for 45 minutes and an article is supposed to be in the Sunday Trenton Times -- New Jersey Local News, Breaking News, Sports & Weather - NJ.com -- I don't know how/if it'll be slanted or not... I guess now it's too late for 'others' to call and bother him... I'm sure that they'll be a comment section available -- at least for awhile!! Historically, they tend to shut down the comments on adoptee articles. I guess too much controversy.

I'm hoping that nothing I said get taken out of context, but it's out of my hands now....
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Old 11-06-2009, 05:07 PM
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Still come in and look around just about daily, just don't always type a reply.

I'm glad to see that so many of us still visit regularly.

epenn...keep posting and don't let the others win, as Crick said.
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Old 11-06-2009, 05:09 PM
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You know what though? They win if you stop posting and being an advocate for what you believe in. You have a great passion and voice for so many and I'd really hate to see you lose that.

((HUGS))

Thank you, Crick. It's a little ironic -- yesterday morning, I was telling my daugthers that I want to drop out of all this adoptee stuff. LOL - their attitude was 'toughen up, buttercup' -- Then, that evening the reporter called...
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i'm here too, but don't have the energy to post very much. i'm expecting again, i'm 11 weeks and very tired and nauseated....especially while taking care of my 2 year old little wild man .

i agree epenn, please don't stop posting, i love reading your posts and have for a VERY long time!!!
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Old 11-06-2009, 06:49 PM
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Congrats, HF! It seems to me that for many of us, there are times when we post a lot and other times when we don't have the energy or desire to say much. I read more than I post. Sometimes it seems to me that there are some people who 1) only want to vent, 2) only want to hear opinions that agree with theirs and 3) take delight in demolishing the opinions (and sometimes the mental health!) of people who disagree with them. My advice is to hang in there!
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[quote=epenn922]So, I had a reporter call me. I talked to him for 45 minutes and an article is supposed to be in the Sunday Trenton Times -- New Jersey Local News, Breaking News, Sports & Weather - NJ.com -- I don't know how/if it'll be slanted or not... I guess now it's too late for 'others' to call and bother him.../QUOTE]

Well, no news article yet. I'm wondering if the 'powers that be' squashed it. I'm trying to find out...
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Old 11-08-2009, 08:03 AM
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I usually read without any time to type lol
I have THE busiest semester in college this year and I come here and read in my spare time LOL

I'm just trying to work hard this semester and get good grades so I can co-op (paid internship) next semester.


Hpfreak,

What degree are you going for?

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