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My marriage is failing because I married some one who was not good for me in the first place, now he wants me to move to be closer to his kids. Which is completely understandable, but he threatened to leave me and my two children(from a previous rel) if I won't go. My abondonment issues are in high gear and I can hardly function. He has already abonded me emotionally through several affairs. If I don't go, my children are going to have to deal with the loss of the only father they have ever known. I go through bouts of shutting down emotionally and pushing everyone away to extreme anxiety and crying. I am at such a loss any help or advice would be great.