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Old 02-06-2008, 02:10 PM
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What has adoption meant to you?

Hi,

I am an adoptee who has been in contact with my natural mother for 18 years. She was also adopted and has been in touch with her first family. I am familiar with adoption and the search and reunion process. Like you, it has been a large part of my life.

As part of a doctoral course I am conducting a small qualtitive study on adoption. I need your help to tell people how it really is!

Please go to my myspace account below and click on the blog "adoption survey" to find the link to the survey, or just click on the link below and go directly to the survey. Everything is confidential!

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Thanks for your help!

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Old 02-07-2008, 04:56 AM
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Thank you! The numbers are picking up...I will post the results of the study in June.
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I did the survey. You had some great questions! Looking forward to seeing your results.
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Yes, I did the survey too, and I thought the question about secrecy was a stroke of genius! Looking forward to seeing the results.
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I tried doing the survey earlier and didn't have enough time to finish!! So I'm doing it now. Hope this helps.
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Please help!

Thank yo ufor the great feedback on the survey. I know there are more of you out there though - please take some time to check out the survey. I want to hear what you think.

Thanks!
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Old 02-16-2008, 08:06 AM
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Hi and thank you to everyone for your help. The information is so enlightening.

Here is an update - I have a survey that is for adult adoptees who have been in contact with a birth relative.

The link is:
Adult Adoptees who have made contact with a birth relative

I will be posting one designed for those searching as well in the near future.

I am also interested in having you visit my myspace account and post anything adopted related (pictures, poems, anything you think is important...) on my adoption blog. This is another data collection method I am using. If you have suggestions I am always willing to listen carefully.

Thanks!

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I just filled out your first survey. If you wish to contact me about anything, I didn't leave my number or e-mail address, but you can PM me here and I will be happy to elaborate on what I have written. Great questions!

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- hey you out there - please take some time and complete these surveys for adult adoptees. They are below...

If one is estranged from oneself, then one is estranged from others too. If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others. -Anne Morrow Lindbergh

Ours is a profound story of love, patience, tragedy and hope. And probably many other adjectives I failed to mention, but hope to include in my research by reading your story. Please share.
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