[Sharon]

Bryce's Mommy,
All I can say is, I've been on this forum a long time and I've never seen a post by an adoptee complaining that their adoption is too "open" or that they do not like being in contact with their biological family. However, I've seen many posts by adoptees searching for their biological families. I've seen some posts by adoptive parents complaining of the "openness", how difficult it is sometimes and how conflicts can arise between the a-parents and the biological parents. I realize open adoption could potentially be very stressful for adoptive parents, but I agree with the other posters; I think it's definitely best and healthiest for the child. I've never once heard an adoptee complain about it. Rather, most of them say they wish their adoptions had been more open. I have great respect for adoptive parents who are willing to participate in open adoption, and I commend you for putting the best interest of your child above all else. I'm a birthmother, not an adoptee, but I strongly feel that adoptees should not have to grow up with a bunch of unanswered questions. I realize some have no questions regarding adoption or birthfamily, but many do, and I feel they deserve answers.
Best wishes to you and your family, and good luck with your adoption. Sincerely, ~Sharon