[Morgianna]

Hi, I am new here. I came here because I have issues with a lot of things. I was recently "found" by my biomother and don't know which way to go with it.

I found this site and thought maybe you all could help. Anyway, Hi.

[sam_i_am_71801]

Welcome to the group. How may we support you? Feel free to share your experience with us. ........sam

[shirleyville]

Glad to have you on board! I have received some really excellent support from a lot of really fabulous people here......and I have really had a "journey", believe me!
Please share your story and we will start from there!
Glad to have you!
Hugs,
Sally

[Morgianna]

I guess that it I am still a little freaked out. My birthmother found me a couple of weeks ago. She had, I guess, gone through some kind of intermediary. The intermediary called my Mom! wow! what a mess! Mom is freaking out. Mom called me and was really mad, asking me why I gave out her number, all kinds of things. It sucks.
She is really mad.

So, I don't know, should I talk to this lady? I mean, I don't want to know anything. I had a crappy life. What am I supposed to tell her?

[TeriBachMFT]

Morgianna
Welcome to the Forum. I think it's always unfortunate when it is the adoptive parents who get contacted first. First of all, how old are you? That makes a difference in some of your decisions.

How are you feeling now about your birthmom contacting you? Are you afraid to tell her that you had a "crappy" life? Possibly meeting your birthmom would help you in many areas of your life.

Please continue to post. The people here are wonderful and can help you in sorting out your feelings.