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What about your siblings?
Would somone please explain to why the state of California has the right to seal an adoptee's record? Because it make s it nearly impossible to locate and siblings. You know, none of us asked to be born into this mess and I think it is really ugly to keep brothers and sisters away from each other for life. I think that this is a form of emotional abuse. Because for me, there will never be closure and now my children will never get to know where they come from either. Because I have no back ground I simply don't exsist in a family full of history that does not belong to me. I think in the 60's a bunch of expected moms were seriously lied to by the system. Some of us adoptee were put into abusive and neglectful homes. Thus the cylcle did continue.ETC.
I should at least have the right/chance to know my sisters and vice versa. It can never be said that a adoptee does not understand the true meaning of living in an unfair society. Thanks.
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rema hampton Last edited by Rema Hampton : 09-25-2002 at 10:09 AM. |
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adoptees put in abusive homes
I don't know the answer to your question. I wish I could help you. Because I was never legally adopted (a form of black marke adoption) I just found out today who one of my brothers is and his address...it was a great feeling. I hope you will experience it soon!
I too was raised in an abusive home, in fact; I have post traumatic stress disorder from chilhood abuse. My councler says that it is common for adoptees to be abused. But it seems that this is our dirty little secret. I want all of us to tell. The world needs to know whats going on. rayma |
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I should at least have the right/chance to know my sisters and vice versa.
It can never be said that a adoptee does not understand the true meaning of living in an unfair society. Thanks.
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