[JPDakota]

So, are you saying that DHS or Child Protection did a removal from her parents home for abuse and you weren't notified? You signed away your rights, so that would explain them not contacting you. You have no status.
I guess I'm not clear on your story. I hope you are no longer sneaking around to she this girl. That's all kinds of ill-advised.
Can you clarify the situation? The turning your back happened when you TPR'd....unless there's something I'm not understanding.

[crick]

My, what a lightening fast judicial system you have! Are you saying they've been found guilty by a court of law or that it's being investigated?

I would imagine then, that your daughter is in foster care at this time?

[DCMomLady]

Let's see ...

She was adopted at age 7 ... when you were 19 ... and you had three other children by then, too?

And you got overnight results on your complaint of "child abuse" against the grandparents -- even though the crime was not so egregious that you felt the need to immediately report it to the police?

Incredible! And I mean that literally.

[ajjhmf]

WOW! A week and already they are GUILTY of child abuse. Amazing. I've never heard of a CPS case resolving so fast. They must have been pretty darn horrible for the case to be resolved this quickly.

[momof2_jm]

Originally Posted by mom2behappy

Being a supervising social worker myself i can tell you that no judge is going to return a child to a birth parent after a legal adoption. I also have personal experiance My cousin was 15 when my aunt put her daughter up for adoption and slthough my cousin was a minor at the time my cousin daughter is now 17. her mother has been fighting for her since she was 6yrs old and when my cousin daughter turned 15 she found out and wanted to go live with her mom and the adoptive parents agreed and the judge still would not agree to give custody back to the birth mom. what he said was that when the child turned 18 she could choose where she wanted to live. and that if the adoptive parents agreed to allow her to live with my cousin before that time that was their choice but there would be no legal standing for it and that my cousin would not be able to bring the aparents to court for child support or anything. also that the adoptive parents would still be legally responsible for making any decisions pertaiing to the child

My first child I was in a very abusive relationship and lived a unhealthy lifestyle. To make my long story short I lost my parental rights because I didn't get stuff done fast enough! I was mentally and emotionally not stable, I was so lost and confused at the time. My sister has had custody since the whole thing started and I have always been mom to my son and be very involved. since all this has began I have changed my life and became a better person! Im very stable at home and now my sister is not. It would be in my son's best interest to come home. She and I both agree that it is time for my son to come home. And have looked into mediation.
I also have a 17m old that adores his big brother as well and this is where he wants and should be!

i was told by a social worker that the only way around this is thru 3rd party adoption to adopt my son back.

So are you saying that If i was to take this in front of a judge to sign off he will deny me?