[NELJ]

I have recently followed the rules and located my birthmother through the court system. The woman wishes to remain anonymous, but she is the only person who has the key to who my father is. I want to get this information, but the court has told me that in their conversation she made it clear she does not want any further contact from the court or myself. I do not know her first name, but I do have other information. Anyone out there have any suggestions to get this info? She is 77 yrs old and has 5 other children before me who know nothing about me, and she'd like to keep it that way. They are my bloodline..it just seems wrong to me. My father, I have been informed by the court also had a family...and he doesn't know I exist...again...more bloodline. Suggestions please? I don't want her to pass away without getting the info I need.

Nicole