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Paula, I might consider sending her a message. I would keep it light and let her know that you always had her best interst at heart when you placed her. Tell her that you know her father has told her about you. You just wanted to be sure that she had your e-mail address and would always be open to answering any questions she may have now or on down the road. Tell her that when she is young, she may not really think of things, but as she gets older and starts her own family, she may have questions, health or otherwise and that you will always be available to discuss this with her. Don't put pressure on her, just let her know that you will always be available for her when and if she feels ready. That way the ball is in her court. I wouldn't push it past that.
Many times when the adoptees are young like this, there are so many other things going on in their lives. Many times after they have started their own families, feelings and things arise.
I am thinking of you and wishing patience. I know it is so hard.
Carolyn
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