[MkMw]

I was very vague in my childcare plans when we were adopting the first time, and up front when I talked to women considering us as a family. Because, honestly, I didn't know what was going to be best for all of us.

As it turned out - I went back to work (when they were 15 months old), then quit (about 6 months ago), to be with the boys, nothing to do with adoption.

AND, we've been waiting LONGER with me as a SAHM than we did with me thinking I wanted/had to go back to work. When its right, it will be right.

You have to do what feels right for the child, you, and your family!