[ladybird1980]

I am just wondering if any of you have had to deal with relatives that seemed to prefer your biological child over your adopted child? I have noticed this a few times when I visited some of our relatives they will hold and talk to our biological child much more than our adopted child. We don't know if we should just cut them out of our lives before the kids are old enough to understand or what. We love both our children and don't want either one of them to feel insecure someday. By the way these relatives were very supportive of us adopting her and were even there at her adoption. It seems that things have slowly shifted toward our other child since his birth when she was less than a year old. Recently we have noticed that they don't seem to make an effort to get close to her. Please give some advice on how you would handle this. I know if I bring it up to them they will just deny it.