[bjmom]

This is an interesting topic. A friend recently e-mailed me that once we get our daughter home, I will get pregnant.

I was somewhat annoyed, b/c she knows about my pregnancy problems. Had no trouble conceiving, carrying or delivering our sons. But then I lost 3 babies in a year and a half to stillbirth, late miscarriage and early miscarriage. I have no problems getting pg. and have wondered what would happen if we had an "oops," but then I realize that most likely it would be another loss due to the fact that I have some sort of autoimmune problem where blood clots form on the placenta preventing nourishment from reaching the baby.

We most likely would not be adopting if we had not lost these pregnancies, so this is God's plan for our family.