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I never had that feeling while I was adopting. I get a weird feeling when then entire family is together and somebody says "Oh, she looks just like her father" "Oh, she gets that from me" type comments. It feels to me like those comments are more then ever. Last week when we were up with the inlaws, my MIL couldn't wait to show me the pictures of her 2 bio granddaughters and how the one looked like my FIL and the other looked just like her. I looked at my beautiful baby boy and thought, I know exactly who you look like and some day I will explain it all to you. Then I looked at DH and felt horrible that he will never know what a bio child will look like for him. Then I put that thought away, we have the most beautiful baby boy in the entire world. He is happy and healthy and the joy of our lives. I would have it no other way.
Jenn
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