Openness
Unfortunately, we have made several offers of increased openness. I have even offered to drop Bella off at the agency so the L could spend some time with her there alone, if she wished. I send invitations to her birthday parties and the like as well. The agency just says that she says she's not ready. What now?
Sarah
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Favorite Book: "Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? A Parent's Guide to Raising Multiracial Children" by D. Jackson Nakazawa--Addresses the special questions & concerns facing both transracial adoptive families & bio families, explaining how parents can best prepare multiracial children of all ages to make their way confidently in a color-conscious world.
"I can't take credit for the face, but I will take credit for the smile."
"Truth is the cure for ignorance. Stupidity, however, is terminal."
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