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It sounds like your friend is still trying to deal with the fact that she will never be able to conceive after having an emergency hysterectomy. Seems natural to me that especially being recent, she needs to grieve this realization first before moving on to other options. Definitely understandable! Try not to take the resentment too personally. It's not the death of a child, but it IS the death of a dream.........takes time to heal.
I hope you continue to be supportive of her, and hopefully in time she may see through your adoption process that this could be an option for her, but that will need to be when she is ready..............
Good luck, to both of you on your pursuits of adoption!!!!!!!!
Hugs,
Karen
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