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Monica, if it's closed how could she possibly indicate that she would like to know about her daughter? Of course you've never heard anything...cause there's no open line of communication....
So, that would be why. It don't have to be a lack of interest on their part any more than it is on yours...if you don't have contact for the safety of your child (by court order) then more power to you, but if you want to tell everyone the birthmother isn't interested at all then be sure! Maybe you'll be surprised...and maybe she's changed...then again, maybe not. If she has then you could possibly get a letter (or visit) from her assuring your daughter that it was never her fault and that she is loved by all members of the adoption triad.
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