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I think you may already have the answer. You wrote that they aren't wanting to adopt---at least at this time---so to say that you're planning to make your family this way, really shouldn't bother them. Look at it this way....it just very well may make them think about adopting, once they see how your family is realizing a dream come true--at some point, KWIM?
It would appear from your posting that you truly care for each other...and I think if this is true, they will be happy for you---and, like I said, you just might be 'helping forge a way for them', too!
Sincerely,
Linny
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