[kjofwalsh5]

ok please forgive me this is my first posting. but i have a situation i could really use your advice on. my husband and i have three biological children and are starting the process of an international adoption to grow our family more ok ill try 2 b brief but bare with me. i have a brother and sis in law who have had fert. issues. they cant have children and it seems for now at least that they arent intersted in adoption. i am really not sure how to tell them that we are serious about this adoption without hurting them. I dont want to spring it on them when theres a little one on the way. any advice would be appreciated. We are pretty open about it with everyone we see. the kids tell people they are going to get a new sister(there jumping the gun but its sweet) ug help thanks
kathy walsh