|
Update
Well, a lot has happened since the day we were matched. My husband was very suspicious of the situation and really didn't trust the facilitator. It just didn't seem right that they have been helping the b-mom for over 3 months and had nothing on her medical or psychiatric history (records in particular). After lots of drama, and it was very heartbreaking for me, but we decided to not go forward with the match.
I thought all of the similarities I had were the b-mom were a sign, but it just didn't work out the way I wanted it. I cried an ocean of tears, but 2 weeks later I can say I feel at peace with it. Just couldn't bring home a baby girl without hubby feeling 100% about it. If anything bad were to happen, he would always blame me.
So, we're back to waiting again. Things are looking up though. I know our daughter is out there. I'll post again when it really happens!
Lisa
|