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does he know who 'special kelly' is? i do think honesty is the best policy
our situation is very different then yours, but when my childrens birthmom had another child, we felt that we shouldnt tell them due to issues the kids were having at the time...
well, then she had another one....
i couldnt keep the 'secret' anymore, and told them about their two new brothers, they were both very excited...(when i told them, it was more of "I have great news for you")
so the secrets are none, i feel good about it, and my children are just fine....
but again, my experience is different, but IMO honesty is the way to go...the secrets will eat at you.....
IMO josh needs to know he has a birthbrother.
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